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  Finding Peace in Indonesia: A Hijrah Journey to the Island of a Thousand Mosques Indonesia has quietly become one of the most attractive destinations for Muslims seeking a fresh start. While most tourists flock to Bali, only a short distance away sits a place completely different in spirit — Lombok , a serene Muslim-majority island known as “The Island of a Thousand Mosques.” Calm, welcoming, and overwhelmingly Muslim, it has become a haven for those searching for a slower rhythm, deeper faith, and a life anchored in community. This is the story of Jacobs, a 54-year-old originally from South Africa who spent most of his life in Australia. After years of corporate pressure, burnout, and navigating a rapidly changing society, he began reflecting deeply on where he truly belonged. Having lived previously in Saudi Arabia and spent time in Dubai and Ghana, he wasn’t unfamiliar with moving — but this time, he wanted something different. Something permanent. Something meaningful. The...

There’s a certain magic in holding a passport that opens the world to you. For me, it wasn’t just a travel document; it was a gateway to freedom. With this passport, I could explore countries without the hassle of obtaining a visa. My first trip to the UK was a breeze—a quick stamp at passport control, and I was through in less than 10 seconds. It felt surreal. While traveling through the Caribbean, I decided to visit the country that granted me this newfound freedom: St. Kitts and Nevis. It was an emotional moment, as I had waited years for the chance to explore my adopted homeland. A Brief History of St. Kitts and Nevis Located in the Caribbean Sea, St. Kitts and Nevis appear as tiny dots on the map. The islands were originally inhabited by the Kalinago people before being colonized by the British and French in the 17th century. They became significant centers for sugar production, powered by enslaved Africans. Today, these islands attract nearly 800,000 tourists annually, drawn by t...

  Kolkata’s New Market, officially known as Sir Stuart Hogg Market, is a labyrinth of sights, sounds, and scents that capture the vibrant essence of India. On this particular day, I set out to explore this iconic marketplace, ready for an adventure. What I didn’t expect, however, was the maze of challenges that awaited me, from touts insisting on showing me around to vendors trying their best to sell everything under the sun. Here’s how my day unfolded. As I stepped out in search of the New Market, I found myself wandering into a bustling street market instead. Confused, I paused to ask someone, “Where is the New Market?” A kind stranger pointed me in the right direction, and soon enough, I found myself at the gates of what I’d later learn was both the Old Market and the New Market combined. The mix of history and modernity was palpable even before I stepped inside. From the get-go, it was clear that this place was alive with energy. Crowded pathways teemed with people—locals, tour...

 Traveling to Vietnam can be a life-changing experience, but navigating the cultural nuances can be tricky. Vietnam is a country full of rich traditions, breathtaking landscapes, and warm, welcoming people. However, understanding and respecting local customs can make a huge difference in your experience. Here are 10 things you should NOT do in Vietnam to avoid culture shocks and misunderstandings: 1. Don’t Underestimate the Weather Vietnam’s weather is as unpredictable as a teenager in the throes of puberty. In cities like Hanoi, temperatures can swing wildly, with scorching heat one day and chilly rain the next. Many tourists make the mistake of packing only for tropical weather. While Vietnam’s climate is generally warm, it’s important to know that winters in northern regions like Hanoi can be surprisingly cold. Even though temperatures may hover around 10°C (50°F), the lack of insulated homes and heating systems amplifies the chill. Pack clothes suitable for all four seasons—jus...

Vietnam is a beautiful country with rich culture, stunning landscapes, and vibrant cities. However, like many popular tourist destinations, it’s not immune to scams targeting unsuspecting travelers. Knowing what to watch out for can save you from unnecessary stress and financial loss. Here are some of the most common scams in Vietnam and tips on how to avoid them. 1. Cyclo (Pedicab) Scams This scam is especially prevalent in tourist-heavy areas. A cyclo driver might approach you with a friendly offer for a ride, agreeing to a price—say, 50,000 dong. However, once the ride concludes, often at an unfamiliar or inconvenient location, the driver demands an exorbitant amount, such as 500,000 dong. He might even produce a price booklet to back his claim. Refusal to pay can lead to harassment. How to Avoid It: Avoid taking rides from cyclo drivers who approach you on the street. If you want to experience a cyclo ride, book through a reputable company or ask your hotel for recommendations. Con...

Dating someone from a different culture can be both exciting and challenging. If you're considering dating a Vietnamese girl, it's essential to understand some cultural nuances and expectations that come with it. Here are eight key things you need to know: 1. You’re Expected to Pay for the Date In Vietnamese culture, it’s customary for the man to pay for the first few dates. While many Vietnamese girls may offer to pay for their share of meals or activities, it’s often seen as a test of character for you to insist on covering the cost. However, be cautious of those who never offer to contribute – this could be a red flag. Paying for dates isn’t just about generosity; it’s also a way to show that you’re serious. Most Vietnamese girls value independence, so those who genuinely care will often try to share the responsibility after a few dates. 2. You’re Expected to Lead Vietnamese girls often look for men who can take the lead in a relationship. Unlike in some Western cultures, wh...